How young is too young to get married? Why?
I think it really depends on the people. I’m engaged and am getting married to my fiance when he comes home. By then I will be 22 and he will be 25. But we love each other and have dated for 8 years. I have known about people just out of high school who got married and stayed together there whole lives and some who got divorced because as they got older they grew apart. I’ve heard of people waiting until they where older like 30’s 40’s and stayed together and some got divorced and just didn’t get along anymore or whatever excuse they made. But, when you are in love you are. Marriage is a personal choice. Some people don’t want to get married and some people do. For me I think it is important. I want to take his last name and I want to tell people “this is my husband.”
That’s just my opinion
1 comment November 19, 2008
Christina
Tags: age, love, marriage
New in town
I thought this was a really cute movie. It is slightly cliche but with a twist. Renee’s character comes into town to evaluating this factory. Which, includes layoffs in a town in Minnesota. It is a very funny cute comedy and is better then I expected it to be.
I can relate to being the new girl. It can be very hard when you first go someplace and no one knows you and you don’t know them. But, I think it shows how friendships can also grow over time.
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Christina
Tags: movies, New in town
What’s age got to do with it?
I read this book from Robin Mcgraw. I actually finished it in a few days. Like in three days. It is such an interesting book. I love the title that says what’s age? I mean really? I think society puts so much pressure on people especially women that when you get to a certain age you have to stop doing things or doing different things. Why? We are all different people. What works for one person might not work for another and vice versa. Robin is so funny and is a great storyteller. I was moved by her book and think it is a fascinating read. Even though I’m 22 this is information I can take with me throughout my life. It’s like getting advice from your best friends mother who has been there and done that and wants to pass it on to every women she can. This is a must read book no matter what stage or age you are currently in.
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Christina
Tags: beauty, books, age, women, book, reading, Robin McGraw, shopping, skin care, healthj. exercise
Fantasy/Illusions
It has been a very slow week for me. I seem to be taking longer then usual to get things done this week. I thought I would be posting sooner but then things just got hectic. But, not really in a bad way or if so I’m not stressing about it like I normally would. That is such a pleasant change for once. I am actually feeling really awesome about things right now. I had lunch with my friend on Tuesday it went great! We talked and she gave me lots of insights I hadn’t really thought of. She said maybe one of the reasons I haven’t taken my constitution or GED yet is because I’m scared of brain freeze and not having the answers. That was actually an aha moment for me because she is right. I am afraid of failing so bad that I’m scared to even try. I’ve let that fear stop me before. But, now I am on a mission if I know something is right for me then why should I let fear stop me? You never know unless you at least try. She also asked me if I ever thought of nursing? I told her I actually had but what not really sure how to go about it. She said she has a friend who works at a nursing facility who might be able to get me a job doing something there and told me about some nursing schools in my area that even pay for housing while you are going to school. That sounds awesome to me and I believe this is something God is leading me to because I’ve been asking which direction to take. The other day I was about ready to just quit working for my aunt. But, then I stopped and thought maybe this is the place I really am supposed to be for now and I need to just do the best I can to get through it. Yesterday I stood my ground and even though it was quite scary I am very proud of myself.
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Christina
Tags: GED, friends, Fantasy, illusions, nursing, nursing school, Lunch
The spontaneous fulfillment of desire
I just finished this book. I thought the concepts where really interesting. “We have loved different people, knelt at different graves, prayed at different alters. the specifics of desire are unique to each one of us. Yet if you follow the chain of desire, in the end we are all the same. We want to be happy. We want to be fulfilled. We want meaning and purpose in our lives. We want a sense of connection with God or spirit. We want other people to respect and love us. And we want to feel safe. These desires are universal. But, the road each of us takes to satisfy them individually and from our individual experiences and memories or karma.”
Add comment July 4, 2009
Christina
Tags: book, books, Deepak Chopra, reading, spirituality
Enough
I am enough. Just for today I will do the best I can and make the most of what I get. I will be optimistic and hopeful. I will not dwell on yesterday but do the best I can today. I am not perfect but I am enough.
It’s been a crazy week for me. I’ve been working all week and will not be getting a break. But, like someone told me yesterday “sometimes you have to do what you have to do! That is so true. So I will do what I have to do and do it to the best of my ability. I have decided that I will stick working for my aunt out until August or September when my uncle has more time to help her. Then I feel it is in my best interest to leave. It causes me so much stress being around her I just feel like I’m not as productive as I want to be. I’ve made a decision to take care of myself and do what is best for me. Not to be selfish but I need to take care of myself. I am scared of making a change this was not an easy decision but it’s what I feel is in my best interest. Next Tuesday I will be having lunch with my friend and I can’t wait to let you know how it goes.
Add comment July 4, 2009
Christina
Tags: august, Career, change, changes, choices, Enough, new job, quitting, september, work
The celestine Vision
I just finished reading this book after reading the Celestine prophesy. I find so many points that I can relate to. I hope you check this book out if you are interested in spiritual truths. Here are just a few examples of what I related to:
“At some point, we have been participating in a group listening intently but when we feel a burst of energy as we received an idea, an insight or point of clarity for the topic at hand. There is a pause as the energy shifts our way, but instead of speaking up, we hesitate.”
This is what happened to me the other day I was in a group setting and it got silent. I was too shy and scared to speak up and then someone else spoke up. After that I was not able to get a word in. So if I had taken the chance at the beginning I would have been able to speak what was on my mind. That was a lesson for me.
“Often one of the fastest ways of regaining our inner divine connection when we feel separated it to uplift someone else.”
I find this to be so true. whenever I am down there is nothing better then extending a hand to someone else and letting them know how much I appreciate them. It’s amazing just what a hug or handshake and a few kind words can really do to lift someone’s spirits. I know that means the world to me. It makes me feel loved and appreciated.
“A coincidental crossing of paths can occur at any time, but usually won’t happen unless we are willing to take the initiative ourselves.”
I had this experience yesterday when I ran into a friend randomly. But, I said something and then she gave me a hug and said we should get together for lunch.
“We will find that most synchronicity comes to us via truths of other human beings.”
I think this is so true. That’s why I like to blog and write because hopefully something I say will help and make a difference for or to someone else. That’s also why I created spiritual cafe. For sharing spiritual wisdom which you can find at www.faithhopegrace.ning.com
“If we are open and alert, someone will show up with a timely truth we need to hear. The key to receiving the information is never fail to explore these encounters, taking, of course responsible precautions for safety.”
I find that is so true. Sometimes when I’m having a bad day or something else is going on in my life someone will say something to me or I’ll read something and have a complete “Aha” Moment.
“love ends and evolves into a power struggle because we begin to depend on energy from each other, rather then from our own inner connection with the divine.”
I have to agree completely with him on this. It seems like relationships struggle when we try to get things from other people. Love, attention, or whatever. But, when I put the focus back on myself and my higher power things just seem to work out the way they are supposed to and everything turns out for the best. In love and friend relationships. We have to rely on god to supply us our needs instead of another human being who can’t be perfect. Just as we are not perfect.
“The more love and energy we give, the more rapidly the synchronistic messages come to us, and the more creative, effective, and inspiring will be our individual lives.”
“Once enough of us understand how tithing works and experientially prove that the principle of tithing works, we will embrace this process fully, synchronically giving a percentage of our income to the sources we feel urged to support. In the same way, opportunities and finances will come right back to us, quite magically, congruent with our expectation.”
“The near death phenomenon confirms that there is only one divine force in the universe, and this force is positive.”
“The fact is, life here on earth is all about becoming more aware of our spiritual nature.”
“Step by step we are becoming more aware that we are spiritual beings slowly evolving a spiritual reality on this planet.”
Add comment June 29, 2009
Christina
Tags: book, books, reading, spirituality, The celestine vision
A thousand names for joy
I read a thousand names for joy by Byron Katie. I’ve always wanted to read her work but never did until now. I have to say I found it fascinating. I also did the work which besides in the book you can find the work at www.thework.com It really is amazing and very helpful. I felt like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I am not worrying about what others say or think or believe because that is there reality not mine.
“inquiry helps the suffering mind move out of it’s arguments with reality. It helps us move into alignment with constant change. After all the change is happening it seems. But, when we’re attached to our thoughts about how the change should look, being out of control feels uncomfortable. Through inquiry we enter the area we do have control: or thinking.” – Byron Katie from the Book
“When there is no choice, there is no fear. They begin to realize that nothing was ever born but a dream and nothing ever dies but a dream.” Katie Byron from the book
“Dying is just like living. It has it’s own way and you can’t control it.” Byron Katie
“We die at exactly the right time not an instant too soon or too late.” Byron Katie
“What I know is that God is everything and God is good.” Byron Katie
“It’s the truth that sets you free and the truth we’re talking about is not someone else’s truth; it’s your own. That’s the only truth that can set you free.” Byron Katie
“God is everything, God is good is not an idea it’s a reality.” Byron Katie
Add comment June 29, 2009
Christina
Tags: A thousand names for joy, blessed, bliss, book, books, Byron Katie, finding yourself, freedom, happiness, joy, reading, spirituality, the work
Discovery and choices
I woke up last night with a pit in my stomach. That has been happening to me a lot lately. But, instead of fretting about it I just spent time with God and went back to sleep. I felt a sense of peace come over me. Then yesterday as I was going to pick up my lunch I decided to go into a local bookstore. I ran into a friend of mine who was not even supposed to be working yesterday. She gave me a big hug and I felt such love, peace, and positive energy radiating from her. I could not help but smile. We chatted briefly as we both had to get back to work. The funny thing is that I did not even know she worked there and she was not supposed to be working but happened to be filling in for someone else. We are going to have lunch sometime next week and I am so excited and grateful to get to spend more time with her.
I seemed to be getting along with the customers. I usually do but I felt a sense of peace and a connection towards them. I felt like a weight has been lifted off of me and it is giving me more peace and positive energy. Then on the way home from work my aunt started giving me a hard time. Which, was not surprising to me. but, this time something flew in the car window and hit her on the back of the head. I told her I thought it was the seat head rest that was loose but she is adamant it is a rock. She is ok thank goodness but after that she left me alone. I think it was something supernatural or spiritual getting tired of her mistreating me.
Today I went to church and one of the attendee came out and said she has been wanting to meet me for so long. And she knew my name. It was great to feel so welcomed like that and that people know who I am and like me. Today I am also going to get a new hairstyle. Something a bit radical then I’m used to. But, it’s time for a change and I feel like I’m turning over a new leaf in my life.
also I’ve created some social networking sites. I know there are tons already out there. But, I would love it if you checked mine out. I worked hard on them and they are different from some other ones. I’ve created Friend Share. Sort of like a my space or face book. But, you can blog, chat, or anything, Meet new people or invite friends. It’s a baby site so it’s not very big but I would love it to grow and expand. All are welcome. You can find and register for this site at www.friendmatch.ning.com
Then I created coffee talk women: Real blogging for real women. You can blog chat with other females about anything on your mind. I’ve created some discussions you can join in or create your own. It’s basically just about women feeling free to be themselves and opening up and sharing in a community with other women. Like when you get together with a friend over coffee or tea and talk about what is going on in your life. You can check this site out at www.coffeetalkwomen.ning.com
Next I created spiritual cafe. For all things spiritual. You can be any religion or no religion. It’s just about people getting together and exploring our spirituality and talking about topics related to spirituality. It’s about finding your inner self and sharing your truth with others. I believe we learn great truths from other people and I wanted to create a community that really reflected that. You can find spiritual cafe at www.faithhopegrace.ning.com
I created inspiring women for women to share there stories and anything that has inspired them. This can be a book, movie, or anything else. It’s also for connecting to other women that are inspiring and gain encouragement for whatever is going on in our lives. You can find this site at www.inspiringwomen2.ning.com
Last but not least is womenhood: A get together for women from all walks of life. You can share on work, career, family, mommyhood, marriage, dating, or anything else on your mind. You can check out this site at www.womenhood.ning.com
Feel free to take a look and join all or one site. I would love for you to become a part of my networks and communities. I look forward to hearing from you.
Add comment June 29, 2009
Christina
Tags: choices, discovery, New hair, social networking sites, women chatting, women social network sites
Climbing the ladder in stilettos
No matter what your career or future goals and dreams I highly recommend this book. It gave me so many insights into work and career and how to get ahead so to speak. There are some things I really gained from it and found to be very inspiring to me. Here are some of the examples from the book:
“Though I have dreams and walk in my life purpose, there is no way to possibly grasp the breadth and Depth of what I am becoming.”
I feel like with every step I take I am getting closer to my dreams and goals. – Me
“I believe that God is in charge of everything and that his greater plans will ultimately prevail. In fact, one of the gifts That belief affords me is the realization of life’s little twists and turns, trials and errors, are truly some of the best gifts though I could not choose them for myself, later on I am grateful for each of them.” -the book
That is the way I feel. Like when my basement flooded and even though it was terrible. I made a choice to then go on and move to a different room which, I know I probably would not have done otherwise and now I believe it’s all working out for the best.- Me
“More grows in the garden than the gardener knows he has sown.” -Spanish Proverb
It’s amazing how we can touch other people. Just today I got an email from someone saying that what I had written really encouraged her and those where the words she needed to hear at that moment. I imagine the people I can touch and help and not even realize all the good I do in this world. I am glad to be a blessing to others and I know others are a blessing to me as well.- Me
“You are the only person on earth who can use your ability” – Zig zigler
I am so touched to have my abilities. I am not saying I’m great but I’m slowly figuring out myself and what I’m good at. I want to use the talents I’ve been blessed with mainly to help other people and let others know they are not alone. – Me
“We should instead look for moments of exchange with people who offer nuggets of wisdom that we can apply. I have found this concept to work brilliantly in a variety of ways. Not only so I seek these moments with a variety of people. But, I am find I’m mentor via articles, books I read, and by leaders I observe and admire from a distance, sometimes even through conversations I overhear in a bus or on the train. All of these sources Briefly mentor me in ways I want and need for my personal life and career.” -The book
I find that I can get so much inspiration and encouragement from other people. When we take the time to focus on others and get out of our own heads it’s amazing how much we can learn. That’s why I love listening. But, I write because I know that helps people and I talk when I think I have something someone can glean from me.-me
“A few simple changes in your daily routine can improve the quality of your life. from now on when you read a book, make the author your mentor and always read with a pen in your hand. As you get used to reading with a pen in hand, you begin to cultivate the habit of taking notes of things you actually think, in addition to what you thought you read. We must learn to read, But only to get our own minds in motion and start our thought process.”-Charlie Jones
“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience and trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened and success achieved.” -Helen Keller
“Do what you need to do to get out of what you don’t like. If you stay too long, you get disillusioned and it negatively impacts your work. That really ends up hurting you not the company or the position. But you do what you need to do in your current role, but aggressively look outside that role for other opportunities.” -The book
Add comment June 24, 2009
Christina
Tags: book, books, Career, climbing the ladder, climing the ladder in stilettos, dreams, goals, hopes, jobs, women, work
The Celestine prophesy
I finished reading this book last week. It is about all these insights we get from life, others, and our higher power. I found it to be really interesting. Some points I found to be interesting where when they say when others are negative or have an attitude towards us they are trying to steal our energy. I found this to be really interesting. I also found it to be interesting when the book was talking about relationships and why we relate to some people and have a connection with them but not others. Also it inspired me to start going to groups and to connect with new people. I also called my friend who I thought was getting married and did not invite me but it turns out the relationship did not last. So I’m sorry for my friend but I’m glad to know she was not blowing me off. Also they say every experience is a lesson or has some wisdom to glean from it. I think that’s why my whole flooding situation worked out for the best and getting sick. Although I’m not sure the exact purpose for these things but I know there must be some lesson or reason underneath it all.
Add comment June 24, 2009
Christina
Tags: book, books, new age, religion, spirituality, the celestine prophesy
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